Tuesday, March 25, 2014

Another one down.

Things are kinda crazy, but it's a good crazy, y'know? I'm enjoying it. 

Elder Hansen is doing great. He's still got some work to do on teaching naturally and giving input in lessons without having to be prompted, but he's getting there. It's fun to see a missionary grow, and even more fun to see all of the things that I need to change in order to be a good trainer. 

Our investigators have been going along pretty well. Dawn came to church again this Sunday, and we'll be setting a baptismal date with her this week. It's been so much fun to see her progress, and we have been so blessed to see her life change just from partaking in the most basic parts of the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Just by reading the scriptures, coming to church, and just wanting to learn more and to feel true peace, her life has changed, and she has been blessed. I am so glad I am able to be just a small part of her life. 

We're starting to teach a few new people, which is a whole lot of fun. It's exciting to meet new people and to see how they want to change, and to show them the way to do it. 

I don't have a ton to talk about this week, but I wanted to share that. I hope that you are all doing well, and I think and pray about all of you, all the time. 

Love, 

Elder Christopher Drake

Veteran's Day!

So apparently the Library is closed on Veteran's day. Nobody told us that it was closed, or that it was even Veteran's day. That's what happens when you're a missionary and you're completely cut off from all the happenins. 

The weeks been good, and very busy. We've been working almost non-stop every day and I love it. We spent the first half of last week saying goodbye to people, which is fun but sad. Thursday we spent half the day at transfer point, and also had a lot of fun seeing missionaries I haven't seen in a while. It's weird actually knowing people now. Mission culture is strange, but fun. 

Elder Hansen is great, and he's starting to get used to the mission life, which is also great. Our first day we set right off going to work. We left his bags and headed out to our first appointment with Dawn. After that we walked to the Ericksons where I had left my bike, then walked to a less-active's, then walked home. We spent about 30 minutes putting Elder Hansen's bike together, then right after our dinner appointment dropped some pizza off (apparently there were some sick kids or parents or something) our ride for our next appointment picked us up. We shoved some pizza in our mouths and bounced off to an active member lesson. After the lesson there, we went over to the Powers, and talked to them for a bit about Family History and getting that started. By the time we got out of there it was a little after nine, and we headed home to finish some cold pizza and go to bed. I thought it was a pretty good first day. 

We have both been eternally tired, which is a good indicator that we're working ourselves into the ground, which is also good. The cold is starting to set in, and that makes me sad, but I'm looking forward to Thanksgiving and Christmas. 

Oh, almost forgot to tell you guys that Dawn came to church for the first time on Sunday! It was a little overwhelming for her, but she liked it a lot. As she gets to know people she'll like it more and more. She also brought two of her grandchildren to church with her, so it was awesome to see them have fun and enjoy church. The members here are awesome and so good at making new people feel welcome. 

Sorry for the shorter e-mail this week, we've got an appointment in about 45 minutes, and I've still got a few other people to respond to! 

I love you all a ton, and can't wait to see you! 

Love, 
Elder Christopher Drake

Trainer!

I'm Staying!

AND I'M TRAINING!

I will admit, that I am sad to see Elder Reese go, he's a pretty cool cat, but I am really stoked to be able to train a new missionary. I feel like a big boy now. Elder Reese is going to Harryet Oklahoma. They spell things really weird here, and if it's not spelt weird, it's pronounced weird. 

It's been a pretty great week, we FINALLY hit the mission standard of excellence as far as total number of lessons taught, which is an awesome achievement for us. When I came in, the area was doing about 7 lessons a week, and we finally got it up past 20 this week. Our teaching pool is getting better and better, and Elder Reese keeps complaining that I and my trainee are going to get to see the results of all his hard work. Since I'm training, it is also probable that I will be here in Bentonville through Christmas, which is awesome. 

The great thing about this week, was that's not the most awesome news I've got for all y'all. On Saturday, I was on exchanges with the Sugar Creek ward. Those are the ones who lived with us for a few weeks. We got a call at about 8 asking if we could help move some people, so we threw on our service clothes, picked up Elder Reese and Elder Powers from the 1st Ward apartment, and drove off into the sunrise. We arrived shortly after 9, and started moving heavy things into a big truck. Everything was pretty well boxed up and ready to go, but it was not the most organized move I've ever been to. There were a few guys in the truck yelling out what they wanted to be packing next. "Boxes! We need boxes!" everybody would scatter and look for some more boxes. By the time some of us found a box that wasn't already packed, the new call would be "BAGS! Give us bags of stuff! We need bags!" So we'd put the boxes down, and grab a bag if we could find one. Then they'd change it again, "GET THAT COUCH IN HERE! We don't want any of those dumb bags! Get the couch!!" This went on for about an hour, and eventually there were so many people running around being helpful, and because I had no idea whether they wanted boxes or couches, I sat down on a cooler and enjoyed some leftover Halloween candy that the lady who was moving offered us. As I was enjoying a nice Twix bar, Elder Reed got an assignment from somebody to go and move some other less-active lady. So off we went.

 After about 3 hours of moving extremely heavy furniture that we were sure contained rocks or perhaps baby elephants, we took a lunch break. After our break, we went over to our investigator, Dawn's, and helped her move all of her stuff. It wasn't heavy, but it also wasn't packed very well. We had two pickups and four guys and we got it done. I had to carry a piece of carpet that served as a rug, that reeked of dog urine. If she wasn't such an awesome lady who's growing so strong, I might have quit. So we moved from about 9 until 4. I was very tired. Dawn has started to read the Book of Mormon and has been improving her prayers. She said her first out loud prayer the other day and we were very proud of her. She said she felt awesome, and after the move, she said the prayer without us even asking. She is doing great. In her own words, "The lights are starting to get brighter."

The ward and I are sad to see Elder Reese go, but everyone is excited to get a brand new missionary. Bentonville is awesome. I love it here. 

Fam, and friends, keep on keepin on. This church is the Church of Jesus Christ, The Book of Mormon is the word of God, and we are blessed to have a prophet on the earth who receives revelation for this day and age directly from the Lord Himself. I have seen the blessings of the gospel explode into people's lives and make huge differences for them. The fruits of the Gospel are obvious and very tasty. 

I love you all to pieces and can't wait to see you again.

So this first one is Elder Reese and I with Dylan Barland at his baptism. The second one is Elder Reese dressed as spiffy as he possibly could. Thought you guys would enjoy that.



Love, 

Elder Christopher Drake

Fall Festivities.

We FINALLY had a really good busy week. It's the first one in a long time. We just kept on keppin on from Monday till Sunday. 

Do you guys remember that less active family that we gave the blessing to and then a guy got arrested? Pretty sure I talked about that last week. So I think I told you guys about Jake, but this e-mail interface is too confusing to go check. Jake lives at the Weldon's and we invited him to take the lessons and be baptized the other week. Well, turns out he's actually reading the Book of Mormon. He even borrowed that old lady who went to the hospital('s? not sure how to do that plural) glasses so he could read it. Usually people just hum and haw and make excuses, but he went out of his way to read which to us is basically a miracle. I am so hopeful that the Gospel will be able to bless his life, and his girlfriend's life. We may not be able to make much of a difference in the whole family, but if we can help the kids make a change in their life, then it will be so worth it. BREAK THE CYCLE!!

Dawn is starting to come along, she just needs a little bit of a push. She's so close. I think I told you guys about Dawn. She's the one who said, "I don't want to be made from the rib of a man, Adam can keep his s#!&" As inappropriate as that is, it's sometimes refreshing to have investigators that are a little more rough around the edges. She's been asked to move out of the place she's staying at, which gives the ward an awesome opportunity to serve. We are very much looking forward to seeing her progress. 

We got to go to the ward Fall Festival this Friday which was awesome partly because of the good food and festivities, and partly because the Powers are now in Bentonville First ward! That was their first ward activity and they had a blast. Square Dancing and all. This is going to be a hard ward to top. 

Just so you guys know, transfer call are this Saturday, so don't send anything to the Bentonville address after Thursday just in case. I'm hoping I'm here through Christmas though.





So here's the two for this week, I can't remember what I sent, and like I said earlier, this interface is awful and for some reason I can't find the e-mail I sent last week so I'm sorry if I sent the same two last week, haha.

This first one is Elder Reese, me, and the Most Interesting Man in the World holding the Most Interesting Book in the World. The Ericksons kindly donated that to our apartment. Oh, also a giant bag of popcorn. Ignore my exceeding chubs. 



The second one is me and the Bentoville water tower. It's nothin special, but it was a photo op, plus dorky pictures in helmets are always great. On a side note, that entire parking lot and those buildings in the background are completely demolished now; Walmart is putting in a neighborhood market or something. Cool Beans!

Love you all!!
Elder Christopher Drake

Of Ambulances and Evangelicals.

Despite it being a slower week, Elder Reese and I sure had some interesting experiences! 

Tuesday was what we called "Monday". We planned to be out of the apartment from 10 in the morning until 9:30 at night. We had something planned for every minute of the day and backups for our backups' backups. At 10 o'clock we went over to a lady's house to do some service. She and her mom are moving and need a ton of help. They mostly need help because the house is so gross that whoever bought it is demolishing it. We spent a few hours taking moldy boxes out of a little sideroom so she could go through things she hadn't used in 5 years and decide if she needed them at their new place. Sister Barland was actually there to help inside the house! She's already an awesome member, we were happy to see her out serving some people who really needed it. After about two hours of that, we took a short lunch, changed, and went to see a less-active. While we were teaching her, a neighbor came by and said, "Hey, swing by C3 in half an hour if you want to talk!" When we finished up with our less-active, we swung by C3 to see how bashy they would be, because that's usually how people are when they invite you over like that. 

We were very pleasantly surprised. 

The guy who invited us over, Ben, turned out to be one of the kindest, most sincere guys I have ever met. Not a golden investigator, but truly a man who is humble and wants to follow the example of Christ. He lives in an apartment with his daughter and two other roommates. Pretty humble circumstances, but you could tell it was a good moral home. It was clean and their was a lot of love. Ben, Bear, and Dan were the three guys we talked to for about two hours. It was fascinating talking to these guys because for the first time in my mission, I met somebody who has the exact same perspective as we do, but sort of opposite, if that makes sense. They want to bring people to Christ with love, they're just missing a few things. They offered to take us in and help us "get away" from the Church. We talked for a loooong while about all sorts of things, and their conversation was extremely refreshing and helped me gain an insight to true disciples of Christ in another faith. I have never met anybody outside of our faith that was so sincerely humble. After talking with them and realizing that these guys were trying to convert me, not out of disdain, but out of love, I proposed this:
 "Our message is simple. We believe that the Book of Mormon is another testament of Jesus Christ and goes hand in hand with the Bible. We believe it's another book of scripture. Just like the Bible, it's a record of God's dealings with His children. We don't ask people to rely on our words, but on the testimony of the Spirit. We ask only that you read it, ponder it's message, and ask God in sincere prayer, intending to act on an the answer you receive, whether this book is true. All we ask is to read and pray, and we know that God will do his part. Give me an invitation as simple as that, and I will take it as seriously as I expect every person we extend ours to."
So this past week I've been reading a lot in the bible. I read the epistle of James, and after prayer and pondering decided that the big difference between our beliefs was the Trinity. All of it really hinges on whether God is a sort of incomprehensible eternal force of truth and right, or whether Heavenly Father, Jesus Christ, and the Holy Ghost are three separate distinct personages. After that realization, I read John because John 1:1 is the classic trinity verse that people throw at us. After I read John, I've been reading Acts. Mostly because it's next. It's been an extremely interesting and enlightening read, and it has helped me to build my faith. After spending a week earnestly trying to test their doctrine, I'll be spending this week earnestly trying to test ours, after all, we are encouraged to ask questions and to seek Him in Spirit and in truth. I'll report on how that goes next week. 

After our encounter with the Evangelicals, we had dinner, then got a call from another less-active requesting a blessing, so we went over. This particular family is very rough around the edges. They struggle with a lot of things and we've been working with them closely in order to help them get back to church. Well, after we got there, we found the woman we were asked to give a blessing to was unresponsive and barely breathing. We gave a quick blessing, and then had an ambulance called. Along with the ambulance came three cop cars. Maybe it was a slow night, or perhaps they came because they are on a first name basis with the family. As the woman was being carried to the ambulance on a stretcher, the police asked people for ID. Turns out the boyfriend of the Mother in the home had a warrant out for him. So he was booked and taken over to the courthouse from there. Meanwhile, one of the officers looked over at us, two clean-cut missionaries in suits and said, "Who are you guys?" 
"We're missionaries," we responded, "These guys go to our church and asked us to give Brenda a blessing...We try to help them as best we can."
"Ah, gotcha." 
And that was the end of that. 

We had a good encounter with a lady we're teaching now, who is hilarious. I'm running out of time though, so I'll tell about that next week!

The pictures are me with Cotton Candy milk, way back when in Harrison, and then Elder Reese, Me, and The Most Interesting Man in the World, with a giant bag of popcorn we got from Primary a few weeks ago. 

Love you guys!



Elder Christopher Drake

The Baptism

All right everybody!

So this weekend was the big weekend. The Barland's were baptized and it was a really good service. I was so happy to be a part of it. I got to give the talk on the Holy Ghost, which was weird. I've never given a baptism talk and it's like a lesson to a lot of people at once, instead of a regular talk. I had a lot of fun though. Anne's husband, Jeff came, and said he really enjoyed it. He'll probably be baptized here in a few years. He'll get it. They were confirmed on Sunday, and I also got to particiate in that. Michael, the nine year old, thinks Elder Reese is the best thing ever so Elder Reese baptized and confirmed him. The Spirit was very strong, and I'm grateful that I got to be a part, (admittedly small part) of their conversion. 

Besides the baptism, the week was extremely slow again. It seemed like nothing was working out. This week we are going to be working super hard to find new people to teach. Hopefully we find somebody as awsesome as the Barlands.  

We went tracting in a nice neighborhood out of desperation for people to talk to. We had a little success, but nobody let us in, which is typical these days. We'll be going back to the same neighborhood tomorrow to follow up with some people.

Because there's not much more to talk about as far as happenings here in Bentonville, I want to share a story about a family in the ward from last night. Our dinner cancelled on us and they volunteered to feed us last minute. We really enjoy being around the Ericksons because they're one of those families that really gets the Gospel. It seems like they know how to live a healthy, gospel centered, but also balanced life. They're not super preachy, but they know what's right and they stick to it. They're one of those families that understand that missionaries are real people. Not that they encourage us to be disobedient, but they're genuinely interested in us and what we did before, and what we're doing after the mission. It's very refreshing being in their home, and we go over as often as we can. 

Sister Erickson was talking about the Elder I replaced, Elder Hammit, and told this story about a conversation she had with another sister in the ward. Elder Hammit and his companion before Elder Reese went over for dinner at this other Sister's home. We'll call her sister Jane. Elder Hammit has a Harley-Davidson tattoo on one of his arms, and for some reason showed it to the family. Later, Sister Jane was talking to Sister Erickson and said, "I don't want my children to see that; it just makes them think it's okay to have tattoos and things like that." Sister Erickson responded, "No, it shows them that the Atonement is real, and that it works." 

As a sinner, I really appreciated that comment. What a refreshing perspective to have. It is so overwhelmingly easy to get caught up in what others do wrong, especially if it's easily noticed. It is so easy to judge other people and condemn them for the wrong things they do, while ignoring your own faults. Henry B. Eyring said, "Where people have [The Holy Ghost] with them, we may expect harmony. The Spirit puts the testimony of truth in our hearts...The Spirit of God never generates contention. It never generates feelings of distinctions between people which lead to strife. It leads to personal peace and a feeling of union with others." How true that statement is. I am so grateful for the opportunity that I have to bring people closer to Jesus Christ. If we all adopted this attidtude, how much more Christlike we would be, and how much better the world would be. We all have a chance to be better, and that's what matters most. The Atonement of Jesus Christ is real, and it works. 

I love and miss you all so much. I hope you have a good week, you're in my prayers. 

Love,  
Elder Christopher Drake

So here are a few pictures! 

The first one is the Barlands right after their baptism. From left to right, Me, Anne, Michael, Dylan, and Elder Reese

The Second one is of my Zone from last transfer. We had a Nerf battle. Elder Reese and I did not get the memo until it was to late so we were in our proselyting clothes. Elder Harrell got cut of for some reason. I have no idea why he was standing three feet away from the group.

Suit Season Strikes Again.

General conference was awesome as usual, but the downside is now all of the Missionaries in the OTM have to wear suits when it's under 75 degrees outside. Luckily, I picked up some sweet suits at Goodwill last week for ten bucks, so I should be able to make it through without tearing a hole in my other suits. In another turn of good fortune, the weather has treated us very kindly. On Friday, the temperature got up to around 90 degrees. On Saturday, the first day of suit season, the temperature did not reach above 60. I'm not a fan of cold weather, but I appreciated not having sweat soak through my coat. 

It seemed to be one of those weeks where nothing works out. If we had taught even a short lesson with every single person we attempted to see this week, we would have far surpassed the Mission's goal for excellence. Unfortunately, we feel far short of the mission president's goals, and our own. Despite this discouraging turn of events, we were blessed to teach multiple lessons with the Barland family, and they will be baptized this coming Sunday! It seems like we hardly had to do anything, they already knew most of what we had to teach, but it has been a pleasure and a testimony builder teaching such prepared people. 

Having the Sugar Creek Ward missionaries has continued to be very eventful and fun. It seems that the apartment is in a never ending state of mess and clutter, and going to bed on time has become more of a challenge, but I'll be sad when they leave. Especially because they have a car and getting groceries to fit in your backpack is not fun at all. 

I wish that this week had been more eventful, but to be honest, it has been difficult to stay busy, which is about the least fun thing as a missionary. 

I hop that you all had the opportunity to watch General Conference this week! I loved President Uchtdorf's talk during Priesthood session. He said, "Satan's purpose is to tempt us to exchange the priceless pearls of true happiness, and eternal values for a fake plastic trinket that is merely an illusion and counterfeit of happiness and joy." He always has a way of saying things that hits me so strongly. 

I hope you are all doing well! I love to hear from you, so please write as often as you can, even if it's just to tell me that the cat threw up on the carpet. 

I love you all so much, and can't wait to see you again,


Elder Christopher Drake